Frigiliana
Hey there,
I moved to Frigiliana in December of last year, but so far I love it. It is in the hills, so you have to not mind walking on steep sidewalks at times, but the place is full of life. It is not on the beach, but still gets a breeze and views of the sea. If you like horseback riding or gardening it is a great place. In the winter it can rain a bit, but never got as chilly as New York or London. There are a lot of festivals, like the one of 3 cultures (Tres Culturas) coming up at the end of August.
Most beaches are 5km to 10 km from Frigiliana, so still very accessible for a day at the shore. If you want to eat out there are several good restaurants and cafes, a nice library with a cultural center, pharmacy and grocery stores to fit your needs.
There is even a British pub called Splash close to the community pool.
Please bear in mind that it is a town of 3000 residents or so, so if you want more than that you may choose to be in Nerja, but if you want more of a country style living then it is grand.
My advise is that you visit first to get a feeling for the area.
So far I love it here, and hope to never have to move again.
Best of Luck,
10C