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Good morning all, hope yr well
Any advice would be welcome! myself and my hunny have a 5 yr plan! we are 33 at mo, and are both currentley at college retraining as a hairdresser (me) and a sparky (him), my son is 13 and my hubby isn't his real father (what a shocker! lol)
My husband and I have 2 children together
Anyway, my son is adamant he doesn;t want to come and im starting to get really worried, he doesn;t want to leave his real dad who he see's lots, and I totally understand.
I have asked him to come over with us, stay and kick back for 6-12 months when he is 18, or he can attend college, but he doesn't even want to do that.
I don;t think he can make up his mind untill he as stayed with us in Oz for a while.
My dilema is, if he really is adament, do I go and leave him? or should I risk it, go he will come for a holiday and hopefully love it so he will stay longer.
I don't mind if he has tried it and decided he prefers england, i'd be happier if he was 21-22yrs old when we go, but we will have the age thing against us
Thanks so much for your time
Tasha xxxxxx
Any advice would be welcome! myself and my hunny have a 5 yr plan! we are 33 at mo, and are both currentley at college retraining as a hairdresser (me) and a sparky (him), my son is 13 and my hubby isn't his real father (what a shocker! lol)
My husband and I have 2 children together
Anyway, my son is adamant he doesn;t want to come and im starting to get really worried, he doesn;t want to leave his real dad who he see's lots, and I totally understand.
I have asked him to come over with us, stay and kick back for 6-12 months when he is 18, or he can attend college, but he doesn't even want to do that.
I don;t think he can make up his mind untill he as stayed with us in Oz for a while.
My dilema is, if he really is adament, do I go and leave him? or should I risk it, go he will come for a holiday and hopefully love it so he will stay longer.
I don't mind if he has tried it and decided he prefers england, i'd be happier if he was 21-22yrs old when we go, but we will have the age thing against us
Thanks so much for your time
Tasha xxxxxx