Hi
fist a little about me and my wife we met 4 years ago and fell in love spent a fortune in phone bills and we got married 15 months ago, i am a British citizen and got a fiancee visa to the U.S and we got married and i applied and was granted my 2 year probationary greencard. we have been trying really hard to get on our feet but with no real support here as her family hates me because i am not American we find it hard and lonely we recently found out that we are going to be parents and it statred me thinking is the best place to raise my child in the slums here where there is many gangs and crime and shootings are daily occuances, or should we move back to Scotland where i grew up and lived before moving here.
my questions are
1: an i apply we dont have much in savings we would have about $5-6k if i sold my truck and items i couldnt take, My parents said we are welcome to live there with them rent free and help us out ( they dont earn much but they have no debt). i could find work and have a farm who said they will employ me and i have trade as a carpet installer
2:would my wife be allowed to use the NHS if she had a visa to stay and work.
3; would our child be treated by the NHS as he would be my son
4; how long would it take for the visa to be granted
i have no intentions of leaving my wife here to come back and find work i cant leave her i spent a year waiting on my U.S visa and being apart it was a hurt like no other now i have my child also i want to be able to raise my family to have the best possibe life and sadly i cant do it here in the states as the economy is bad and not many people will employ foreigners with the exeption of illeagal mexicans
please advise me on what i should do, i did consider me and my wife coming back then applying from within the UK as we only have a honary consulate here
i welcome your suggestions and advise
many thanks wilky
fist a little about me and my wife we met 4 years ago and fell in love spent a fortune in phone bills and we got married 15 months ago, i am a British citizen and got a fiancee visa to the U.S and we got married and i applied and was granted my 2 year probationary greencard. we have been trying really hard to get on our feet but with no real support here as her family hates me because i am not American we find it hard and lonely we recently found out that we are going to be parents and it statred me thinking is the best place to raise my child in the slums here where there is many gangs and crime and shootings are daily occuances, or should we move back to Scotland where i grew up and lived before moving here.
my questions are
1: an i apply we dont have much in savings we would have about $5-6k if i sold my truck and items i couldnt take, My parents said we are welcome to live there with them rent free and help us out ( they dont earn much but they have no debt). i could find work and have a farm who said they will employ me and i have trade as a carpet installer
2:would my wife be allowed to use the NHS if she had a visa to stay and work.
3; would our child be treated by the NHS as he would be my son
4; how long would it take for the visa to be granted
i have no intentions of leaving my wife here to come back and find work i cant leave her i spent a year waiting on my U.S visa and being apart it was a hurt like no other now i have my child also i want to be able to raise my family to have the best possibe life and sadly i cant do it here in the states as the economy is bad and not many people will employ foreigners with the exeption of illeagal mexicans
please advise me on what i should do, i did consider me and my wife coming back then applying from within the UK as we only have a honary consulate here
i welcome your suggestions and advise
many thanks wilky