Since you don't qualify under the Surinder Singh case, I will be very surprised if you and your UKC husband manage to get the EEA Family Permit to enter the UK.
Please take the time to read the following:
1) 2.5.1 http://www.ukba.homeoffice.gov.uk/sitecontent/documents/policyandlaw/ecis/chapter2.pdf?view=Binary
2) EUN2.14 UK Border Agency | EUN02 - EEA Family permits
Does this apply when the OP is simply looking for a visitor visa (per OP-three month visit)?