It was interesting reading Rhodes diary of hoarding items of no importance . My old dad used to say, Keep it for 7 years, if you haven't found a use, keep it for another 7. I found I adopted to this easily!!
I saved all the cards from my kids and partner, Mothers Day, birthday, Easter etc and was faced with the bag full of treasures, what to do? save or bin.? There comes a point when you realised these items must go and nothing prepares you for throwing personal stuff out, but you can't keep everything.....
If anything, it goes to show how much money we have spent over the years on useless, unwanted gadgets. Just take a look in the cutlery drawer!!
I have an old Cypriot widow below me, she lives in a one room stone house, has a bed, fridge freezer, washer, cooker, sink and one cupboard, table and chairs, no toaster, microwave, blender, fashionable kitchen storage jars or the latest trends, no vac as it's a stone flagged floor.
Her bathroom is across her courtyard.
She is the kindest person ever, we sit by her open fire, toasting bread on a knife, eat boiled eggs out of our hand and pick a lemon off the tree to put on food. I always take her something, even if it's a piece of fruit, or a meal on a plate. She has introduced me to Cypriot village food, including boiled goats head and the like.
She calls me korree mo (daughter mine) and I call her miterrah mo (mother mine), we don't speak each others language, but strangely understand each other, through her she takes me to other villagers homes where I am welcomed in the same way. Now I keep packets of figs or biscuits at the ready to take with me as a gift.
To me, this IS living the dream.