Well, leolair, you've certainly had a boxful of useful suggestions and comments - everything from Paris to Eymet!
Vive la difference! However, whilst your post was precise, many replies deal with all sorts of things that you did not request information about. So I thought that a more generalised answer might help you.
I'm a Brit, and I have lived in the heart of Dordogne for the last 24 years, so I have learned from the inside about France; the French; south-west France in particular; and tourism; foreigners; and my neighbours. [Please excuse my English spellings!].
For over a decade we established and built a holiday-rental business aimed specifically at couples.Some of the guests were American. Two of the houses we rented out belonged to a couple from Berkeley CA. Amongst our extended circle of friends & acquaintances here was a former UK Ambassador to the US. So here's my first point - the Americans who come here are different. They can be defined by the fact that they have a Passport - 60% of the US population don't. My observation was, that they all shared one thing at least - they were aware of a world beyond the US, and were eager to learn about it and experience it (oh, and also they shared an embarrassment of their President, and how he was viewed in Europe!).
This attitude is key to your decision making. There was far too much discussion in reply to your post about finding everything you want in the way that you have it in LA. This is why over 30% of the resident population of Eymet are Brits - it's a fabulous, attractive, 'bastide'village, but all you will hear is English (in many accents); and all you will see is cafés full of Brits on the booze, with the smell of Fish 'n Chips wafting across the central
Place. But property is cheap, the sun shines, and the wine is inexpensive, so let's make it into Little Britain in Dordogneshire.
Your key decision-making, I suggest, should be based on a desire to immerse yourselves in another country, it's culture, customs, history, and lifestyle. But remember, it's
the people that make a country - not the amazing castles, pretty villages, rivers and hills. If you want LA in
la belle France you won't find it, and shouldn't want to try to recreate it. What's the point? - you will be destined to be dissapointed in your life-choice.
To be clear about this concept. France is a Foreign Country. The people speak a Foreign Language. They have Foreign Customs. They have Foreign Traditions that you need to understand. Please don't just flip over these words. Think about them.
The wording of your post was carefully chosen, so I anticipate that this is all in line with your thoughts and outlook. But you will also be aware that you have only seen the 'buy-me!' cover of the book; and have not been able to read what's inside, because it's all in French. Here's a few chapter headings.
- France is geographically surrounded by other countries and cultures - which a] has brought them into contact with the outside world for thousands of years; and b] caused them to be very introverted and protective of their immediate family & friends. On land, traders have criss-crossed the country from Portugal, Spain, Italy, Britain, Germany, Switzerland, Austria, Holland, and so on . . . and they have sea access on 3 sides, including the far-reaching Atlantic Ocean, and the Mediterranean which is easily crossed to North Africa, Arabia, Greece and beyond. So even in a small but idyllic village, don't expect to be invited in for drinks or a casual supper. This is family only territory.
- Driving a car is essential to life. End of story. Forget 'walking to the boulangerie' or a doctor round the corner. In south-west rural areas there are no buses. Single-line trains connect main centres, but you need a car to get to & from the station. Shopping, whether your choice is a hypermarket or a local farmer's market, requires a car to get there & back, and to carry stuff. If you don't want to be car dependent - don't come to Dordogne.
- Tourism is now the life-blood of the region, alongside traditional but declining agricultural work. But don't be put off by this, as some posters warn, bear two points in mind: firstly, the tourist 'season' is really only July and August. So for 10 months of the year it's much quieter, even totally deserted. Secondly, if you buy a home in one of the villages, just a few km out of town, you will never know that there are tens of thousands of tourists sweating just up the valley. However, even in the depths of winter you will still get to enjoy the supermarkets, pharmacies, doctors, banks etc etc that are here because of the growth of tourism.
- The French are very self-protective. They never say 'sorry', because they never accept the blame. It will generally be construed to be 'your fault'. They will blame anyone but themselves, so this is their attitude to service - they don't understand the concept much (with some exceptions nowadays becoming apparent in online businesses).
- On the other hand, if you find a good local French tradesman (artisan) they will show total honesty in their dealings with you.
- All life here is based around the Commune. So it's family first; then the commune. Each commune has at least one main village, with a Mairie and a church, sometimes a school. The Mairie is the office of the maire; and will have at least one secretary. There will also be workers responsible for looking after everything, and carrying-out minor works to keep everything clean and functioning. The maire is elected by a team who put themselves forward for election every 5 years. There are 36,569 maires in France. They are not normally salaried, unless the village has some exceptional demands on it (such as Limeuil village, with about 40 permanent village residents, but over 20,000 tourists a year). The 'staff' are known as fonctionnaires on the other hand, and have a job for life guaranteed. Generally the maire is a local person, born & bred - and knows everyone and everything; the Mairie will therefore be your first port of call for anything that you need . . . but always be nice, polite, and prepare in French what you need/want to say.
- There is a hospital within 40 minutes max wherever you live in Dordogne. Key ones are in Bergerac, Libourne, Sarlat, and Périgueux. In addition there are Cliniques, which are run by groups of specialists, entirely within the State system (they keep any profit). Most outpatient needs are provided outside of the hospitals, which are there primarily for hospitalised patients. So specialists, scanners, x-ray, ultrasound, blood test labs, physio, psychiatrists, etc are mainly in a multitude of external, often custom-built , locations. Everything is totally efficient.
- The pompier (fire service) provide 24-hour emergency medical callout, alongside the SAMU, from their bases all around Dordogne. There is no question of 'Have you got insurance?' or 'How can you pay?'. They whisk you to the nearest hospital, no questions asked. You probably know that you will be issued with a carte vitale when you join the healthcare service here - it has a chip which gives them access to all the info they need. Brilliant system!
- Finally - always think in terms of Liberté, Fraternité, Egalité . . . the French really do live by this motto, and it will guide you well in your dealings with them.
It's therefore down to you to answer your own question. The best route, as already suggested, is to rent for a month or so, and just drive around, explore, turn off right at the next junction and see what you come across. The Dordogne is a box of treasures, interspersed by rivers and wooded hills. All you have to do is choose what appeals to you - everything else is a short car drive away.
A votre avenir! Michael xx