Hello! This is the first time I've ever posted in a forum so if this fits somewhere better, then let me know but I have a bit of a dilemma. I'm also aware this might sound childish but visas/immigration law/etc is ridiculously complex.
Anyways, at the end of May, my boyfriend and I met for the first time. We have been together 6 years in February, met online, but I could only stay with him and his family for the summer. Now the issue is that I am positive I want to move there and we both want to continue our relationship to the point of talking about getting married when we have money available to spend on a wedding. However, there are some things regarding visas I don't understand.
We first thought I needed a "partner of a settled person" visa but we would have to live together for two years which would be fine but visitor visas only grant you 6 months in the country. We read somewhere that you have to be in the country for a certain amount of time but you can't be out of the country for too long else it doesn't count as living together for two years.
How are you supposed to make that work? Neither of us have jobs though we're trying, primarily because I don't have a vehicle and my boyfriend has issues finding and keeping a job due to his diabetes, dyspraxia, aspergers syndrome and other health issues. On top of that, my family lives below the poverty line, and his family isn't ridiculously well off either. Would you stay in the country for six months, leave for a time that would not upset border control, repeat? For how long should you leave for so it doesn't look suspicious if that's the case? (A guy was detained while I was in Edinburgh Airport for going into and leaving the country at random for random periods of time.) How long can you be out of the country before the time you were there becomes void? Would it be easier to get a student visa, study there for the two years, then move on to a family visa?
Sorry for all of the questions but, any advice or guidance would be insanely appreciated. Our trip only just ended a few days ago but we both want to make sure that I will be able to move there ASAP because we're both hurting a little bit being apart again, but it's not cheap to go. :noidea:
Anyways, at the end of May, my boyfriend and I met for the first time. We have been together 6 years in February, met online, but I could only stay with him and his family for the summer. Now the issue is that I am positive I want to move there and we both want to continue our relationship to the point of talking about getting married when we have money available to spend on a wedding. However, there are some things regarding visas I don't understand.
We first thought I needed a "partner of a settled person" visa but we would have to live together for two years which would be fine but visitor visas only grant you 6 months in the country. We read somewhere that you have to be in the country for a certain amount of time but you can't be out of the country for too long else it doesn't count as living together for two years.
How are you supposed to make that work? Neither of us have jobs though we're trying, primarily because I don't have a vehicle and my boyfriend has issues finding and keeping a job due to his diabetes, dyspraxia, aspergers syndrome and other health issues. On top of that, my family lives below the poverty line, and his family isn't ridiculously well off either. Would you stay in the country for six months, leave for a time that would not upset border control, repeat? For how long should you leave for so it doesn't look suspicious if that's the case? (A guy was detained while I was in Edinburgh Airport for going into and leaving the country at random for random periods of time.) How long can you be out of the country before the time you were there becomes void? Would it be easier to get a student visa, study there for the two years, then move on to a family visa?
Sorry for all of the questions but, any advice or guidance would be insanely appreciated. Our trip only just ended a few days ago but we both want to make sure that I will be able to move there ASAP because we're both hurting a little bit being apart again, but it's not cheap to go. :noidea: