Yes.So you are saying that you are the second wife?
Btw I just read somewhere that if a guy is married to 2 or more women, he can sponsor only one of them.
Ouch. Sorry to hear. I can imagine is not an easy situation. I don't know for how long you've been married for but perhaps you just need more time to get used to it? Sorry I don't have a lot of advice for you, hopefully someone with actual first hand experience on this will be able to help you.
that usually takes the form of "no 1, here is no 2. make some space in the wardrobe and show her where the towels are..."As far as I know, in order to get married with the second, the man must have 'approval' from the first so basically, the wives must know each other.
We are in a relationship before he went for marriage. He has to go back to obey his parents. But we dont want to end ours. So after he came back here, we decided to be married.I am confused...
You guys are married less than a year and living in Dubai, then he got married again back in Pakistan ?
Or he was already married and you guys got married afterward, then he sponsored you to move to Dubai with him ?
I'm touched to your words. Highly appreciated.Hi
Why does it bother you....it different does it make if you are the first or the second - if he had to marry the other one to please his parents - so be it - some families are like this.
The fact is - he married you...he could have not...or his parents could have told him not to...either way - he did...
she's back in pakistan....he lives here with you...i'm assuming he spends more time with you than he does with her.
How do you manage feelings?? Well that depends on how he manages his feelings - is he in a physical relationship with the wife in pakistan....does he plan on having children with her?
DO you know if they are affectionate etc...whatever the story is - as long as he is loving and caring to you and devotes his entire time to you and your family - or potential family - that should be important.
The best way to look at it - in my opinion - is to think when he is in pakistan - imagine he is away on business for work...
maybe that will make things easier for you.....
saying all that - i would think this depends hugely on what his relationship is like - with the other wife....
are they in love - are they close friends - does he care for her - and of course the intimate issue.