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Old 19th July 2013, 11:56 AM
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Hi all,

Again many thanks for your honest and open opinions.

I can look at this ways. Either it will work and it has so far in the last three years or it will fall apart after a period of being together.

Either way I feel I want to give it a try unless something changes in the meantime. I am already retired and have told her family I ain't a rich sugar daddy.

I have been in touch with the Director of Philippine Consular Affairs here in Dublin, not about the relationship, but about my visa options.

Having got information from him I have many visa options so I can give the relationship a try over there in Phils and hope it works but if it doesn't I can leave. My funds will be maintained here in Ireland or elsewhere.
I have gone through in my head all the advice I have received here re her age, her aspirations, children (which she says she doesn't want and I have told her had a vasectomy anyway), is she using me etc.........

So unless I find something in the meantime that turns me off her I would like to give it a go. I can walk away if it fails but I would hate to not try and regret never having tried as she is a lovely girl, good family background, great values re life, everyone likes her, unselfish (she gives up her wages to her family), she works and I've seen her salary slips and what she got for the amount of hours she put it. And we work well together.

Anyway nothing ids going to happen in the shorterm as she's now on a 5 month contract and I have stuff to sort out here first anyway.

I am not taken aback by any comments that have been made, I want it called as you see it. I will make the decision myself in the end anyway.

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Pat,

Look at it this way. If you had a 21 year old daughter that brought back a boyfriend to meet you and he was actually older than you, would you be happy with the situation? Her parents are being polite to your face, they live in one of the poorest areas of the Pinas. They see you as nothing more than a ATM. What parent, living in abject poverty would see it any other way? Are you sure that her "uncle" is actually a relative at all and not a lover? I have heard so many stories where a filipina has claimed that a male is her cousin, uncle or brother and then actually you later find out its her lover and before you know it your dead! My partners family now live in Angeles city, they moved there years ago. I have visited a few times now and have shared nights out with her brothers on fields avenue. I have seen old men, barely able to walk unaided with a young lady on their arm. It sickens me to the very bottom of my stomach, they look nothing more than paedophiles! I know, a very strong word to use, but again, just my opinion. No wonder the local men hate white people so much when they see this going on 7 days a week. I actually feel ashamed to be white when visiting, I dont want taring with the same brush. But I know I do. Women the world over look for stability and security. When I served in big Garrison towns in England, Northern Ireland, Germany and other countries I have served in, there were always women in bars frequented by off duty squaddies looking for a boyfriend, someone that had more expendable cash than your average civvy. You hear of huge fights in Garrison towns between soldiers and civvies, it all boils down to jealousy on the civvy side. How can your average civvy compete for a womans love compared to a squaddie? The chance for them to escape their boring lives, to travel and be financially secure. Can you imagine how much more that is craved when you live in such poverty?

I think you seriously need to wake up and smell the coffee! If I were you I would politely let this girl go and try and find a lady closer to your age, one that will share some common interests. Take a long hard look in the mirror, talk to yourself and ask, "what common interests do me and this young lady share?"

As I said in my previous message, think with your head on top of your shoulders, not the one between your legs!
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Well, IF the old man is sterile, loyal and good to her, Why not? If he is taking her back to his (wealthy) country, teaching her how to make real money, invest it well, making her black belt and getting her both skilled with guns and a ccw carry permit, once she is a citizen, so she will be safe, and then turning her loose to find a man her own age, to have her kids, etc, I'd be thrilled at the idea of my daughter marrying him. She can send some "spare" money to the family, ya know.
So really, what your saying is, "oh, its ok to bring a young lady back to my country, have "fun" with her and then set her free. I can then find another and do exactly the same all over again?" Where I come from, thats a form of human trafficking!

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The Director for Philippine Consular Affairs is Irish.

I would find it very hard to go and live in Phils knowing she's there somewhere.

I would prefer to try and live together and then get a suss as to what she really is like in a relationship living together.

At the moment I have no reason to doubt her sincerity and am conscious of how family matters work as I have been going to SEA for over 20 years.

I am very grateful for the frank and sincere comments and am taking them all on board.

Thank you again,

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