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Hi,I'm new here. Brought a Filipina back here to usa on a 90 day visa. We been married for 3 years now. Lots of drama. Lots of issues beyond belief. I now found some paperwork she was hiding. It says she is buying a condo in cebu. She is useing her maiden name and has put that she is single on all documents. She has also applied for a cenomer and is getting her sister to pick it up for here there.. Not sure if she needs that fake doc for the condo or something else. Would the cenomer show her marriage to me in the states or most likely not. Seems like she is up to something. She works her own job here and contributes nothing. So I guess she is sending her money to buy that.

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Hi,I'm new here. Brought a Filipina back here to usa on a 90 day visa. We been married for 3 years now. Lots of drama. Lots of issues beyond belief. I now found some paperwork she was hiding. It says she is buying a condo in cebu. She is useing her maiden name and has put that she is single on all documents. She has also applied for a cenomer and is getting her sister to pick it up for here there.. Not sure if she needs that fake doc for the condo or something else. Would the cenomer show her marriage to me in the states or most likely not. Seems like she is up to something. She works her own job here and contributes nothing. So I guess she is sending her money to buy that.
typical.....bringing most back is a mistake. Theres a rare few that it works. Sorry you married her
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Sorry to hear that BillyBob and what a depressing first post that you've shared with us, Drama and issues beyond belief... Actually I believe, works and contributes nothing... Once again I believe.

But didn't you mentioned she's on a 90 day Visa?

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Ya,the stuff she has done and said would make a good movie, that very few would believe. I filed for divorce once,but withdrew it. I'm 54 and she is 32. I have stayed and put up with all this for the same reason most men do, but now even that has stopped. She says she is tired and doesn't want to do that, but she stays up 5 hours more until early morning. Yes she came here on 90 fiance visa almost 3 years ago. She is now waiting on her 10 year green card. Adjustment of status was filed a year ago. I image being how it is in the Philippines that they will never see that she is lying on the cenomar about never being married. I was hoping they would catch it once they did there investigation, but we was married here in the states.so It might not show up there. Not sure what she is up too now. Doesn't look good.
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Ya,the stuff she has done and said would make a good movie, that very few would believe. I filed for divorce once,but withdrew it. I'm 54 and she is 32. I have stayed and put up with all this for the same reason most men do, but now even that has stopped. She says she is tired and doesn't want to do that, but she stays up 5 hours more until early morning. Yes she came here on 90 fiance visa almost 3 years ago. She is now waiting on her 10 year green card. Adjustment of status was filed a year ago. I image being how it is in the Philippines that they will never see that she is lying on the cenomar about never being married. I was hoping they would catch it once they did there investigation, but we was married here in the states.so It might not show up there. Not sure what she is up too now. Doesn't look good.
lol,,any of us who have spent yrs in the phils can imagine it.

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do the paperwork and register your marriage at the consulate, that will surely surprise her

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Not sure how to do that,but I will look into it. She has a folder 4 inches thick of any texts I sent her when we was fighting. She found old letters from old girlfriends before her. She has them in a folder also. Some how she got old paternity tests from previous relationship and child support she looked up on county record.. Court orders from a custody battle of my ex and a bunch of other stuff she copied yo and put in folder.. It almost looks like this is a planned thing from the start to make me look bad. Her Filipina sisters asked we questions. She copied them too. Old fighting letters from ex's, she found in the garage. I didn't know I still had them. A old condom also in garage pile she took pic of and put in folder. Any women on fb,she labeled as my mistress and put in folder .crazy stuff.
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Sounds like she is setting you up for a fall, probably heard she is good for 50%.

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hey Billy Bob

I have been through this with filipino women. Not all, but most are liars, scammers and will take the foreign guy for what they can get. I married one here i n the states after bring her here. She got a job a Home Depot and didn't want to help out at all on bills and food. I even caught her messing with my neighbor. I was lucky since I had some illegal things on her that she had 'done. I filed for divorce and warned her she be better off in hell then the consequences if she even tried to cause me trouble or want anything I had bought. She said I was threatening her and I said yes!!!!! I told her to get her things and get out or I will throw them out. She left. She did sign the divorce agreement because she knew I would cause her real trouble. SO I WAS LUCKY. Also the house, boat and vehicle i bought I made sure it said (or) and not (and) on all the titles. I then converted them to my name only just to protect myself. But, like I said it turned out in my favor since I had illegal things on her that she did.

BTW--she is living with the neighbor now. I feel for you. I hope you have a way out without her getting a lot from you. I don't know what state you live in but some states look at the time married and you bringing her here.

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They can fool you so easily. She gave me so many complements above and attention and sex at the start. Made me feel ten feet tall. Now all she does is call me names and put me down and ignores me.. She has shoved me and hit me in her made up jealous rages. So has me with every woman that's alive. I called the cops on her last time she hit me. Cops said you have no marks on you. It's your word against hers. She has moved out 3 times. The longest was 4 months. She blocked me on her Facebook page about a year ago. She wont say why. She also goes by a different name on fb. She says I have a mistress and all other kind of crazy stuff. One good thing,we both signed a pre_nup before we got married. She had her own lawyer look it over. She ignores my 13 year old daughter and freaks out if I wanna see my 5 year old daughter so I sneak to see her. Yes,I know I don't even sound like a man anymore. She has beat me down so much. After work,I get home and she sits in the other room until 2am on her social media. Ignores me the whole time. This has been going on daily for about a year. No sex,hugging or anything. She says she is tired,but still stays up to 2am every night on social media. So I stopped asking.. The only time she talks to me is if she needs a ride somewhere. She has her own car,but is scared to drive. I pay for her car ins and all bills. If I ask her to help,she says u r broke cause you pay child support to that prostitute, she calls my ex that. My 13 year old old daughter hates her,cause she calls me a *******, bi,bolar,prostitute lover and calls me mental in front of her.
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