this new soon to be member of the family, from my observation, hasn't got a clue with the local culture and the ramifications of living within the family group. I asked him if he's learned any of the language, his response "why should I everyone here speak
s english". I have tried a little cajoling , but he seems like he thi is he knows it all. My wife days to wait and see, with regards to all this, and says he is only planning, and I know, she and her siblings hold the power. I think he's going to be in big surprise when we all find out what he thinks he's going to do here.