Health safe questions....

belovedgirl · #1 (**permalink**) 28th June 2009, 10:39 AM

Hi,
I m dating a man from South Africa, he is so charming intelligent and warm, I love him so much. but my friends and family memebers r with fear partly because he is a business man, he used to travel a lot and went to clubs.They say south africa is still dangerous in aids and hepatitis, etc,some friends warn me that I dont know his past, and most people r very open in premarriage sex there , so .........
can any one give me some wise ideas or just any comments?
Thanks a lot!

jojo · #2 (**permalink**) 28th June 2009, 11:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by belovedgirl

Hi,
I m dating a man from South Africa, he is so charming intelligent and warm, I love him so much. but my friends and family memebers r with fear partly because he is a business man, he used to travel a lot and went to clubs.They say south africa is still dangerous in aids and hepatitis, etc,some friends warn me that I dont know his past, and most people r very open in premarriage sex there , so .........
can any one give me some wise ideas or just any comments?
Thanks a lot!

Insist that before you take your relationship any further, make him take the relevant tests????

Jo xxx

ROKZY · #3 (**permalink**) 28th June 2009, 02:55 PM

If he is really interested in you, he will also care about your safety and feelings. If he hesitates or balks at you wanting tests, RUN AWAY VERY FAST!!!

belovedgirl · #4 (**permalink**) 28th June 2009, 02:59 PM

He is willing to do tests, he is a christian man.
But my family still worries and doesn't want him.