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Old 10th January 2012, 02:55 PM
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Why does it feel totally random for a woman to be by herself in a bar/pub in Dubai? Never mind the stares you get, but the assumption that you are there on some dodgy business just baffles me. You know like when you are having a bad day and just want to chill by yourself with a nice glass of wine, this can never happen in Dubai. Just my Dubai rant for the day

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ha ha ha ha . True story, it is always, how much?

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well what more can I say

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Stock up on the wine at home... get a good sound system to play whatever music you like.

It is better to just not fight it. It is what it is. There is no escaping the how much if you go out by yourself.

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Why does it feel totally random for a woman to be by herself in a bar/pub in Dubai? Never mind the stares you get, but the assumption that you are there on some dodgy business just baffles me. You know like when you are having a bad day and just want to chill by yourself with a nice glass of wine, this can never happen in Dubai. Just my Dubai rant for the day


Hey you cant even go for a coffee in Cairo without being classed as wanting picked up,

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Hey you cant even go for a coffee in Cairo without being classed as wanting picked up,
... Which reminds me about the time an Egyptian man said this to my wife when she was walking thru the Khan... "I would slit my wife's throat to be with you!"

Kinda make you feel warm and fuzzy all over, isn't ?

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Why does it feel totally random for a woman to be by herself in a bar/pub in Dubai? Never mind the stares you get, but the assumption that you are there on some dodgy business just baffles me. You know like when you are having a bad day and just want to chill by yourself with a nice glass of wine, this can never happen in Dubai. Just my Dubai rant for the day
Depends also on what you are wearing. Short skirt, high heels, cliche fullfilled...

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Depends also on what you are wearing. Short skirt, high heels, cliche fullfilled...
makes sense eh...

so dear ladies, if you try to have a night out in a bar here and you don't want the "gents" around to think you're up for picking up, do the following:
- don't have a shower for two days and don't use any deo/perfume, etc.
- don't wear make up of any kind
- don't brush teeth
- wear a bed sheet, preferably brown in colour, and the old shoes you wear when you clean the garden/shed/stable/balcony, etc.
- don't wax, and God forbid, don't brush or comb your hair for at least a couple of days

i'm just thinking this way men who go to bars to look for a quick lay would be sure you're not after a quick lay...

but the scary thought is: what if some like their women like this?...

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You don't even need to be on your own, my wife has been accosted for business a few times while we've been out together and I've gone to the loo or whatever.

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