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Some time back I was persuaded to take part in an adult film. I can honestly say that I never really enjoyed the experience, although my own personal performance was probably worthy of an Oscar or two.
The trouble is…. The film has become quite popular and is even being advertised on some well known sites (obviously can’t tell you which ones). My wife would be mortified if she found out about what I did… especially if it was to come from a random sauce…But can I really tell her what happened?
I am between a rock and a hard place, although I feel I have several options I could consider.

1> I tell her everything and hope that her Christian outlook on forgiveness extends to me!
2> I deny everything as ludicrous, and put it down to someone looking a lot like me who obviously understands the secrets of good love making in the same way that I do!
3> I try to persuade her to leave the church and maybe participate in the making of a film or two her-self?
4> I leave my wife and two young children to fend for themselves, whilst I embark on a movie career…. gorging myself on the fame, the riches, and the entitlements that a successful Adult light entertainer is privileged to?

Would welcome any decent feedback you all might have to offer?

Kind regards…

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option 4 sounds like a plan to me!
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Wow ... what a scenario .... I seem to remember thats happened to a few budding movie stars and its come back to bite them on the butt ... didn't Sylvester Stallone do something like that?

You're stuffed all ways aren't you

Although you have to assume that having a good Christian upbringing your wife might not be looking in the right place to see your star perfomances
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Nope, option 4 still strikes me as the best option.
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Nope, option 4 still strikes me as the best option.
option 4 does have a little 'jena se qua' about it....but so does option 3
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option 4 does have a little 'jena se qua' about it....but so does option 3
More luck with option 4 if she is that religious!
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I think, on reflection, that a co production, Option 3, is probably the best idea
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I think, on reflection, that a co production, Option 3, is probably the best idea
Co-production eh Strav........ could be a good call Might even be able to rope a few of her clergy in too?...... Could remake the sound of music if there is enough of us! Have to change the music though... as Do-re-mi-fa-so-la- te-do gets on my nerves and is so off putting!...lol
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Some time back I was persuaded to take part in an adult film. I can honestly say that I never really enjoyed the experience, although my own personal performance was probably worthy of an Oscar or two.
The trouble is…. The film has become quite popular and is even being advertised on some well known sites (obviously can’t tell you which ones). My wife would be mortified if she found out about what I did… especially if it was to come from a random sauce…But can I really tell her what happened?
I am between a rock and a hard place, although I feel I have several options I could consider.

1> I tell her everything and hope that her Christian outlook on forgiveness extends to me!
2> I deny everything as ludicrous, and put it down to someone looking a lot like me who obviously understands the secrets of good love making in the same way that I do!
3> I try to persuade her to leave the church and maybe participate in the making of a film or two her-self?
4> I leave my wife and two young children to fend for themselves, whilst I embark on a movie career…. gorging myself on the fame, the riches, and the entitlements that a successful Adult light entertainer is privileged to?

Would welcome any decent feedback you all might have to offer?

Kind regards…

Ricardo Blue

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she would never see it and if she did you could ask what the hell you looking at them sites for !!! Arent i enough for you !! You slapper LOL etc etc . And thus start a argument and then contra the accusations until its forgot ..

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she would never see it and if she did you could ask what the hell you looking at them sites for !!! Arent i enough for you !! You slapper LOL etc etc . And thus start a argument and then contra the accusations until its forgot ..

like it...like it....the old reverse guilt trick....with the "lets just forget about it"
final solution scenario....... you are truly one of the great thinkers of this world
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