Are there any genuine Egyptian men?

[DeadGuy]

Originally Posted by animaltyler

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you'll know when it feels right. Just spend as much time as possible in real life situations with him before you make a final decision.

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Finally someone's making some sense

Thank you!!!

[DeadGuy]

Originally Posted by Sofia Cooper

It intersting to find someone so negative about their country and themselves !! as i feel exactly the same about the UK ......only for the fact for our high standard of living and bad weather (in which no one can change that) lol .....BUT Deadguy seems to have not had things so good ....i could be extremely wrong to say this , but i just feel that not all Egyptians are proud or happy,,,, and then you have to look into the reasons why ,,,, so therefore they are going to have a negative outlook and not have anything good to say about their country and people
So Deadguy ........your not happy there and iam not happy here .....i guess we need to re-evaluate our life and move looooool .......and Mardini no matter what i always try and smile

You're not totally right, but you're not totally wrong either, it's just like what Avril Lavigne said in her song...... Complicated!

[Sofia Cooper]

Originally Posted by animaltyler

Hi, I have a very honest and trust worthy egyptian husband. We work together on the quad safari tours in Hurghada. He has never asked me for money and has always treated me like a princess. I have just recently had a misscarriage and the care and attention he gave me was amazing, I have never felt so loved. He has 7 sisters and his mum who i get on really well with and I am treated the same as everyone else in the family.
After a few awful mentally and physically abusing relationships back in England, I feel so blessed that I met my husband and was given the chance to start a new life with him here.
Like others have said, There are good and bad people evrywhere, but you'll know when it feels right. Just spend as much time as possible in real life situations with him before you make a final decision.
I hope you will find yourself as happy and loved as me.

animaltyler ....its nice to read that your life is for the better in many ways .,, and you must feel so lucky to have found " Mr Right " in Egypt ,, he seems what alot of western woman would want to find in and Egyptian man......infact in any man ,,,,,
He seems he is kind , honest and most of all genuine .....
Its also a plus that you get along with his family ...and especailly his mother !!!
i just have to clear up one thing ,,,iam not actually looking to setlle down yet with a man lool .....unless whisks me off my feet ,,,,but i doubt that will happen for a good while
Sorry to hear about your loss ,,and with the support of your husband , you iwll both maybe wont forget of course but support each other and look to your rosy future

[Sofia Cooper]

Originally Posted by DeadGuy

You're not totally right, but you're not totally wrong either, it's just like what Avril Lavigne said in her song...... Complicated!

I never listen to Avril Lavinge lol ....so i wouldnt know what song you are on about .......so what your complicated or do do mean awkward looooooool ....yes i have had to deal with men who are complicated,, in many aspects of my life .....and sure i always end up understanding their ignorance, and thire awkwardness .......if you say to them black is black ,,,they would still insisit one saying it is not ...so i think you are maybe winding me up to bite back ,,,,,guess what it aint gonna happen looooooooooooool

[jojo]

Originally Posted by mardini

Do all Egyptians post asking for females phone numbers? The Egyptians I know are not like that. They are well behaved, highly motivated, hard working, real positive, helpful for no return, and always proud.

Having moderated the egyptian forum a while ago, it has to be the only forum where yes, men have come on here asking for womens phone numbers, asking to meet women, wanting to show them round and find them nice places to live..... Yes, they're being friendly. But the persistence and tenacity I havent seen on any other forum. Infact I would say this behaviour is pretty much exclusive!

Jo xxx

[moataz123]

Originally Posted by jojo

Having moderated the egyptian forum a while ago, it has to be the only forum where yes, men have come on here asking for womens phone numbers, asking to meet women, wanting to show them round and find them nice places to live..... Yes, they're being friendly. But the persistence and tenacity I havent seen on any other forum. Infact I would say this behaviour is pretty much exclusive!

Jo xxx

Yes jojo, I am sure you are right, some restless Egyptian men keep scanning the exapt forums to find a girl with a phone number, or offer a phone number...etc. It's a disgusting behavior that wouldn't have accrued unless what they see from tourists keeps igniting their memories, if you know what I mean.

They mix what a tourist do in a 1 week vacation with any "another language" woman trying to find her life in Egypt. So it's like: let's give it a shot, maybe she will respond. A behavior that should be described not less than: "the cattle behavior". Disgusting.

But the thread's title is a ... little? "bad" too?? Because I am sure the majority of Egyptian men are genuine. The majority of the Egyptian people are genuine.

[DeadGuy]

Originally Posted by Sofia Cooper

I never listen to Avril Lavinge lol ....so i wouldnt know what song you are on about .......so what your complicated or do do mean awkward looooooool ....yes i have had to deal with men who are complicated,, in many aspects of my life .....and sure i always end up understanding their ignorance, and thire awkwardness .......if you say to them black is black ,,,they would still insisit one saying it is not ...so i think you are maybe winding me up to bite back ,,,,,guess what it aint gonna happen looooooooooooool

Hi there,

What I was describing as complicated was what you said earlier:

Originally Posted by Sofia Cooper

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i could be extremely wrong to say this , but i just feel that not all Egyptians are proud or happy
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Wasn't "winding" you to bite back or anything, I wasn't even biting so you bite back

I am a complicated person as well but it's not what I meant

Good luck!

[jojo]

Originally Posted by moataz123

Yes jojo, I am sure you are right, some restless Egyptian men keep scanning the exapt forums to find a girl with a phone number, or offer a phone number...etc. It's a disgusting behavior that wouldn't have accrued unless what they see from tourists keeps igniting their memories, if you know what I mean.

They mix what a tourist do in a 1 week vacation with any "another language" woman trying to find her life in Egypt. So it's like: let's give it a shot, maybe she will respond. A behavior that should be described not less than: "the cattle behavior". Disgusting.

But the thread's title is a ... little? "bad" too?? Because I am sure the majority of Egyptian men are genuine. The majority of the Egyptian people are genuine.

I'm sure you're right!!! I discovered the right word for this on another thread "REPUTATION"! And it is the reputation of a few that will always taint peoples views on the rest - as with every society, group etc!!

Also as I've pointed out, Its only really ever been on the Egyptian forum that we get these funny little chaps coming along........ !! But of course not all egyptians or all men are going to be like this. But its doesnt hurt to be cautious, especially when there are language and cultural differences

Jo xxx

[moataz123]

Originally Posted by jojo

I'm sure you're right!!! I discovered the right word for this on another thread "REPUTATION"! And it is the reputation of a few that will always taint peoples views on the rest - as with every society, group etc!!

Also as I've pointed out, Its only really ever been on the Egyptian forum that we get these funny little chaps coming along........ !! But of course not all egyptians or all men are going to be like this. But its doesnt hurt to be cautious, especially when there are language and cultural differences

Jo xxx

I have a strong connection to the tourism field in Egypt, and I it came times when girls from Romania started to pour in Egypt finding work as dancers, entertainment teams, and "other services" I can't mention here. What happened is that the whole Romanian girls were stamped with the "reputation", which I couldn't believe personally. Sure not all Romanians must be dancers, or who is being moms, teachers, doctors ....etc back there?

Several years ago I decided (out of economic decision) to invest in Romania, and as soon as you say "Romania", people give you this knowing look: yeah, this guy decided to play. which I was shrugging away. You know what?? I ended up living with the best wonderful woman you can ever find, with the best family ever (in my eyes). And I proved that what we have in Egypt is just less than 1% of all Romanians. The rest are nothing like this.

During my business there, I met Italians and Germans that came to Romania searching for those girls they heard about, want to have some fun for a week or something, ad they were asking me: "what are you doing tonight?? let's go out and find girls??" and my reply: "Mr. xx, this is a hard working country, you will go out to find everybody sleeping since 11pm". Surly you can find what you want, but it's a very small percentage of the country.

Sadly, a minor rotten spot in an apple can harm all the fruit.

[jojo]

Originally Posted by moataz123

Sadly, a minor rotten spot in an apple can harm all the fruit.

And therein lies the whole Stereotype problem!!!!! But nonetheless, its human nature to use that as the starting point/benchmark for all nationalities, cultures etc. I dont think any of us are stupid enough to assume that every single person of a particular race are the same, but "en masse" thats how we perceive them. Its not meant to be offensive. In fact I'm sure some nationalities, in particular religious groups are happy with their stereotypical image, cos it aint all bad!!!

Jo xxx