Hi Synthia thanks so much for your reply...but it not the language problem that am worried about....my husband and I have a home in Malaysia we spend our holidays there twice ayear..the only thing am worried about is leaving my family we have 4 children plus 5grandchildren..going on holiday it lovely..living there well am not so sure..we are in the process of saleing our house and spending our retirement in Malaysia..At first I clouldn't wait now am having second thought...gosh any idea.. by the way am British my husband Malaysion...