Originally Posted by Helopoh
I live in SC USA and he in Manchester England. Essentially what I am looking for is someone who would be willing to talk to me here (yahoo or skype) and give me a heads up as to what I might expect in this situation. I am not looking for outright advice but someone who can tell me what the time line they used was and what I would need to do to start. I don't feel confident enough to just start paperwork and I have become very overwhelmed in the last few days of all my online reading. (Brain is the consistency of pudding right now
Simply enough, Yes we are going to be married. Either this November when he comes back or in the following June when his parents are going to come with him. He has already been here once before and we have many years invested in our relationship online as we have been together formally since 01/17/2007. I guess I am looking for a big brother/sister just as far as informational purposes as I know the giving of advice is hard with each situation being it's own entity.
We literally have all the time in the world but I expect that the sooner I get the correct info and started the better it would be.
I have been here since April. I think you need to get married asap- the longer your relationship has gone on, the easier it is. I did all of my paperwork myself. and sent it off to a courier service to have it hand delivered.
If you want you can PM me and we can talk about it. I know how hard this is, starting the process is overwhelming and can be scary as h e l l!