The norm for commute to/from the burbs is 1.5 hours each way? Egads.

In terms of salary, just to make sure I understand - you suggest that we negogiate that my husband receives the same salary amount in the UK that he receives in the US. So, if he makes $100K here we should request £100 while in the UK? Is this normally done?

Does anyone have a good website or resource that you suggest in terms of items to negotiate for an expat package?