Hi and welcome to the forum!

I take it you're coming from the US. (OK, I confess, I checked your IP address...)

Where to live will depend a bit on the type of work your husband is doing and where exactly his office is located. Take a look at the train lines to see which train station is handiest to where he'll be working and consider the towns along the relevant commuter lines. If he'll be traveling, you may want to be near one of the airports.

But a big consideration will be the type of package you'll be on - an expat package (where the employer picks up many of the extra costs, often including housing, a company car and tax assistance) or local payroll (where you're on your own like any local employee).
Cheers,
Bev