Yes i totally agree with you on the not over-committing thing, it all becomes very stressful otherwise! Both mine love swimming and would happily stay put in a pool all day! They havent started any music stuff yet but i'm hoping to get DS guitar lessons (plus singing as he has a lovely voice...biased of course!) and DD i will teach my very basic clarinet knowledge! She does drama too. Both love Art (so do i!), i think its good to have themes and link it all in...makes it more interesting and children learn in different ways too. How do you find socialising with HS?