You said you are very good with computer, have you try to contact IBM company in your country? If you get the work, IBM have many positions available in Northern Thailand-Lumpang or Lumpoon. It's well paid. IBM is definitely in need for Lead Software Architect. You can ask to be transfer to Thailand. In order to compete with thousands of Thais who have post-graduate degrees, you should be fully capable to work independently and show your qualities are above average educated Thais. Those Thais can speak, write in both Thais and English, many know Chineses, French, German, Russian, and other languages. You can meet many female Thais who don't need your money if you go to the right places. Have you try Dok-Yah bookstore? Walk around Thamasart University for a change of scenery lately?