Hi,

maybe we got lucky, two girls who play netball and a son who plays rugby we had no probs at all. Dont stand back and wait though as we brits can do, you have to be quite forward at times. We also found the meeting place was generally the local or a coffee or wine bar.
that said if you ask people round for a barbie then you could be on, I cant cook but everyone just came with eskie, meat, stubbies and wine. Men took over barbie and it was great

col