Lovely to read your posts and thoughts everyone, thank you... it has helped... very hard to put all this into perspective when you are in the midst of it all . Yummy Mummy, in particular you summed this up so well, A JOB WELL DONE...........and perhaps we can remember we are a Global society today, the far flung corners of the world are not as they were, so inaccessable, they are close to hand, OZ is but 22 hours away, less than a day! And if we have done all we can, then thais A JOB WELL DONE ... thank you Tricia for that, once again. Gilly