Hey both and ty, I have tried the "lets research this" option lol but now its imminent he is getting more anti he has agreed to give it 12 months and see how he feels, otherwise he will even live with my mum he must be desperate lol as far as the 10 yr old goes I think researching the area and things to do would be brill for him
Will let you know how we get on
Cheers
Jacqui