I can now appreciate why your child has a problem , there is no actual turn around in my attitude , you just appear to have a very wierd way of interpreting people , your choice of forum(above) suits you to a 'T' , maybe you could take some of its advice , but from what i have read in your postings , you find it hard to accept anyones attempt to be of help , you are already so perfect you lash out at random , suffer the poor children to come unto me . Colin