I thought this was an open forum of comparatively friendly people , giving us all advice/information as we have found it , bullying of chidren is met all over the western hemisphere which means suggestions from anywhere could be of help . It has often been found , that whilst the adults are fighting about chidrens problems , the chidren are assailing other windmills together and having a great time , a certain amount of independance needs to be asserted at some time . Colin . p.s. I came into the equation because i wanted to , and as i am not banned i have equal rights to do so as long as i am not abusive to ANYONE .