Well if you are happy then I am happy for you!

People do not leave and change because it hurts.
It is exciting to explore new places, countries and cultures- as a family too .
So one does it because it is something one desire to do, not because it hurts or due to fear only.
Just read the postings and you will find only a very small group leaves because it really really hurts them. For the rest it is fun or dreams come true
For me I live in the now, not in the past wherever I am.
That is the only way to live life to the fullest and enjoy new experiences .
Enjoy your experience now.