Yes, I thought you sound pro.

The trouble is that I have moved around and lived in Europe a fair bit but have not travelled to any arabic countries (well, expcet for a weeks holiday in Egpyt but a resort isnt the same.) So, altho I know that Dubai isnt in KSA, I suppose i do assume that it will be similar. Its my ignorance i suppose and I will need to do more research.

I do like the idea of moving to Dubai, as I have heard a lot of good things about it, and if it has a western element to it (eg the shops and things to do) then i prob wont feel so home sick. But at the same time i am worried that it will be very very different to what i am used.

Thank you for answering my girly questions. I shall have a think and let you know if i come up with any more.