Originally Posted by maire9
there were three offenses for theft of motor vehicle, all in early 1990's, with probation as punishment and one minor offense with only a fine as punishment. We thought they fell under the Clean Slate Act since it had been over 7 years, but with the United States it doesn't matter; we were unaware of that however.
So -- it's not the end of the world like a drug offence might be.
Forget marriage outside the US. Your case is going to be complicated enough without adding to it.
He needs a K1 to marry you here.
You have issues:
Possible false declaration(s) on his previous VWP entry.
Possible public charge consideration under his disability.
Surprisingly enough, the 3-day overstay makes no difference to this visa. Its only consequence is that he cannot use the VWP again.
You (or a co-sponsor) will need to meet the minimum income requirements. With a disability such as you described, London often requires that health insurance be in place for him.
Yours is not a straightforward case because of the issues noted.