View Single Post
  #2 (permalink)  
Old 4th July 2009, 08:51 AM
kimonas kimonas is online now
Senior Expat
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Nicosia
Posts: 168
Rep Power: 32
kimonas is on a distinguished road

Originally from uk. Expat in cyprus.
Default

[QUOTE=solal;158224]Being offered an interesting position, I am seriously considering relocating to Cyprus. As a gay male from Northern Europe, I'm used to being open about my sexuality in private and professional life. I was wondering to which extend that might become an issue in Cyprus.

The Gay scene in most areas of Cyprus is virtually non-existant and indeed until relatively recently it was still ipossible to recieve a 3-5 year jail term for even 'attempting to commit' homosexual acts and it was only the accession to the EU that various draconian laws were repealed or moderated to bring Cyprus in line with European cultural norms regarding sexuality (Cypriot society is relatively mysogynist, xenophobic and homophobic - largely as a result of the powerful influence of the Orthodox Church on family life).

I believe homosexuality is still technically illegal in the South in that the government cowed down to the objections of the outraged Church and only promised not to prosecute overt homosexual acts in public rather than decriminalise homosexuality altogether as the EU accession agreement had requested.

Many gay men marry and have children through arranged marriages for the sake of putting on a 'normal' front to maintain family connections and harmony and there are few overtly gay couples.

Although not gay myself, I have many gay friends and colleagues - it simply is very low key and hardly ever discussed. There are a few gay bars and beaches, clubs and venues, but they are all very much underground.

Some aspects of Cypriot life are slowly changing, however, and many of the diaspora Cypriots returning to live on the island that have been raised in more liberal environments are beginning to change attitudes in parts of Cyprus - and of course the many foreigners who crowd the tourist areas have forced a change in attitude in the face of commercial survival. There have been instances of hostile reactions to gay couples in more traditional areas, but in the larger cities and tourist areas I would think that there are unlikely to be problems.
Reply With Quote