Hi dbend. I can understand your feelings, but I must agree that one of the major benefits of living and working abroad is the experience of interacting with ex-pats from around the world. I am American and have had the pleasure of living in many countries during my career and I can truly say that the people that I have met throughout my travels have enriched my life. I am not sure what your background is, or your age and if this is you first international living experience but I would recommend not to exclude all the wonderful people that make up the ex-pat community. Enjoy