No - dont have jobs to go to. I am a primary teacher - my husband in construction. Not even thinking about jobs until we get there. Got to much on my mind already! My husband was originally born in Perth - came over here when he was 6 - so got spouse visa through him. Feel exactly like you - feels like I am going through a grieving process at the moment - horrible feeling - part of me wants time to hurry up so can just go - other part wants it to slow down so it never comes! Really do want to go - am sure it wil be the best decision of our lives - but know it is going to be very hard. One miute think can't wait to go but next I think were doing ok here lets just forget about the idea!!! Know from talking to others that first year will be very very hard - and am preparing myself mentally for that ! I think! Anyway will add you to my facebook now - so can defo stay in touch. Good to be in touch with someone who going through the same thing as its very hard to talk to family about how I'm feeling as there automatic response is don't go! And thats not what I want to hear. We break up from school on 25th July and I am trying very hard to remain calm and collected up to that point!!! Hope all goes well with you Gina