Originally Posted by belovedgirl

Hi,
I m dating a man from South Africa, he is so charming intelligent and warm, I love him so much. but my friends and family memebers r with fear partly because he is a business man, he used to travel a lot and went to clubs.They say south africa is still dangerous in aids and hepatitis, etc,some friends warn me that I dont know his past, and most people r very open in premarriage sex there , so .........
can any one give me some wise ideas or just any comments?
Thanks a lot!